we do not share your data with anyone and there are many ways to control the visibility and storage life of your data here.
but the internet is a public space and you should always assume your data could be compromised.
be smart with your password, use tor or a vpn, and use pgp for sensitive communications.
it's a pretty tough one for vendors since packaging and labour make a gram too expensive an item. i think you are wise to seek variety, maybe ask a seller to put together a package for you, otherwise find another smoking parent to go in with :)→