we do not share your data with anyone and there are many ways to control the visibility and storage life of your data here.
but the internet is a public space and you should always assume your data could be compromised.
be smart with your password, use tor or a vpn, and use pgp for sensitive communications.
Was the gram you did get nice though?. If what you say is true then of course its ridiculous. Your reaction here is irrelevant you're due what you paid for→